Soha Ali Khan recently shared the unique marriage philosophy passed down by her mother, legendary actress Sharmila Tagore: a delicate balance between a man’s ego and a woman’s emotions.
The Secret to a Lasting Partnership
Sharmila Tagore, a prominent star who continued her career after marriage and children, believed in a specific mantra for domestic harmony. Her advice, shared with daughter Soha, revolved around distinct roles within a relationship.
According to Soha, Sharmila suggested that women should “take care of the man’s ego,” while men should focus on “a woman’s emotions.” Soha, married to actor Kunal Kemmu, credits this traditional wisdom with helping her maintain a long and successful partnership, despite modern perspectives on gender roles.
More Relationship Wisdom from the Stars
The conversation extended to actress Neha Dhupia, who recalled receiving similar counsel from Soha before her marriage to Angad Bedi. Neha remembered Soha emphasizing the importance of being mindful of men’s “fragile egos.”
Neha added her own insights, stressing that marriage is an ongoing commitment. She believes it requires daily effort and a strategic approach to conflict, highlighting the importance of preserving the fundamental friendship between partners to navigate challenges effectively.
Balancing Stardom and Motherhood
Beyond relationship advice, Soha also touched upon the challenges her mother faced as a working actress and a parent. Sharmila Tagore, a trailblazer, sometimes found it difficult to dedicate ample time to her children due to her demanding career.
Soha recounted instances where her brother, Saif Ali Khan, as a young child, would prefer his nanny over his mother after long absences. This candid revelation sheds light on the emotional complexities and sacrifices involved when balancing a high-profile career with family life.
- Sharmila Tagore’s marriage mantra involves women tending to male egos and men caring for female emotions.
- Soha Ali Khan and Neha Dhupia agree that long-term relationships require continuous effort and thoughtful communication.
- Balancing a demanding career and family life can be emotionally challenging for parents and children alike.
Sharmila Tagore’s own marriage to cricketer Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi lasted for over four decades until his passing, perhaps serving as a testament to the principles she championed.
