Anshula Kapoor, daughter of Boney Kapoor and his first wife Mona Shourie, recently revealed she carried the heavy burden of believing she was the reason for her parents’ divorce from a very young age.
A Child’s Unspoken Guilt
Anshula shared that at just six years old, she began to internalize her parents’ separation. She wondered if her arrival had somehow disrupted their happiness, feeling that before her, their life was “all hunky dory.” This heartbreaking belief led her to question if she wasn’t “good enough” as a daughter.
This feeling intensified even more after the birth of Janhvi Kapoor, Boney Kapoor’s first child with his second wife, Sridevi. Anshula admitted thinking, “maybe, something was wrong with me,” a sentiment that, while difficult to acknowledge, highlights the deep psychological impact on a child.
Understanding the Truth
Despite her childhood thoughts, Anshula clarified that both her parents had always assured her she was never the cause of their divorce. It took time, but she no longer holds onto that belief.
She emphasized how a child’s mind processes difficult situations differently, making them prone to misinterpretations. This experience serves as a powerful reminder of how psychological effects can manifest, especially when someone is so young.
The Echo of Overheard Words
Anshula speculated that her childhood theories might have stemmed from snippets of conversations she overheard. She believes she might have misconstrued random words from adults, piecing together an entirely different narrative in her head.
This aspect of her “trauma” has been openly discussed and addressed with her siblings, family, and parents, highlighting the importance of communication in healing past hurts.
Navigating Public Scrutiny
Beyond her personal struggle, Anshula also faced public scrutiny when her parents separated. She recalled how people began to comment on her “family values” and upbringing, forcing her to withdraw into herself.
She described trying to comprehend this “new normal” amidst the public eye, a challenge many children of public figures often face during personal family upheavals.
A Look at the Family History
Boney Kapoor first married Mona Shourie in 1983, and they had two children, Arjun Kapoor and Anshula Kapoor. The couple parted ways in 1996.
Later that same year, Boney Kapoor married actor Sridevi. They had two daughters, Janhvi Kapoor, born in 1997, followed by Khushi Kapoor.
- Anshula Kapoor, at age six, believed she was the reason for her parents’ divorce.
- Her feelings of inadequacy intensified after Janhvi Kapoor’s birth.
- Her parents clarified that she was never the cause, and she no longer holds that belief.
- She suspects her childhood theories may have originated from misinterpreting overheard conversations.
- Anshula also dealt with public judgment regarding her family’s separation.
Anshula, who typically maintains a low profile, recently stepped into the limelight with her appearance on the Amazon Prime Video reality show, “The Traitors,” sharing her candid experiences with the public.
