Suniel Shetty recently opened up about the initial struggles and family opposition he and his wife, Mana Shetty, faced due to their interfaith marriage.
A Love That Defied Parental Disapproval
Suniel Shetty revealed that his parents were strongly against his marriage to Mana, primarily because of their different religious and cultural backgrounds. He recalled their clear stance: “My parents were very clear, they said this marriage can’t happen, you can’t get married.”
Despite this significant hurdle, Mana’s commitment never wavered. Suniel fondly remembered her saying, “I’ll always be there for you as long as you want me to be part of your life.” This unwavering support became a cornerstone of their relationship.
Breaking Industry Norms
In a bold move for a budding actor, Suniel decided to marry Mana even before his first film was released. This decision went against common industry advice, which often suggests actors, especially men, should avoid tying the knot early in their careers.
Many cautioned him that marriage could lead to a loss of fan following, particularly among women. However, Suniel had already made up his mind, prioritizing his personal life over perceived career risks.
The Strength of Commitment and Trust
Suniel believes that when a loved one supports you in a demanding profession like acting, it becomes your responsibility to honor that trust. He was always transparent and honest in his choices, confident that Mana would stand by him.
He emphasized that Mana’s self-respect and strong sense of commitment were evident from the very beginning and remain a vital part of who she is today. This mutual respect has been key to their enduring partnership.
Marriage: A Lifelong Vow
Reflecting on his own marriage, Suniel described it as a profound commitment. “When we got married, marriage was a commitment,” he stated, referring to the traditional seven vows taken with the understanding of staying together for “seven lifetimes.”
He acknowledged that while it might sound like a “filmy dialogue,” it is a deep truth. Suniel also highlighted the significant balance and positive influence a good wife brings to a husband’s life and to their children’s upbringing, qualities he sees reflected in his own kids.
A Nine-Year Courtship
Suniel first encountered Mana and immediately fell for her, despite his “gunda” image at the time, complete with a bike and long hair. Their love story involved an incredible nine-year courtship.
During this period, they often met discreetly at 4 AM on holidays like Christmas and New Year, with Mana never once complaining about the unusual timing. While Suniel’s parents took nearly a decade to accept the union, Mana’s parents were supportive from day one, forming a great bond with Suniel.
- Suniel Shetty defied family and industry pressure to marry Mana Shetty due to their interfaith backgrounds.
- Their marriage was founded on deep trust, mutual respect, and Mana’s unwavering support.
- After a nine-year courtship, they married on December 25, 1991, establishing a lasting partnership.
Their enduring relationship has since seen them raise two successful children, Athiya and Ahan, both of whom have followed their father into the entertainment industry, a testament to their strong family foundation.
